The Ultimate Intersection

"Discovering your calling is not an epiphany, but a series of intentional decisions. It looks less like a giant leap and more like building a bridge."

A great axiom used in our world today is to find the intersection of what you love and what the world needs. This has played out recently in my organization where a project that needed more organization and better management was identified. Initially, when asked to lead this project, I really struggled with getting involved. I almost missed an opportunity. By listening to the advice of others and making the decision to apply my skills in this situation both the organization and I are reaping the benefits. Over time, I have discovered my love for research, organization, planning and implementation. Now I’ve been given the chance to take the skills I love and apply them to a project that needs them. This creates the proverbial win-win situation. I get to do some of the things I enjoy, and the organization benefits from having a more efficiently managed project.

Making Lemonade from Lemons

"Your calling is not always easy. It will take work. Practice can teach you what you are and are not meant to do."

Think back on an experience in your life when you worked at something but ultimately learned that it was not for you. One such experience for me was when my parents wished to instill in me their enjoyment of instrumental music and insisted that I take piano and trombone lessons. During the years that I was forced to take music lessons, it certainly felt like hard work. Musical practice did not yield melodious perfection in my case, however. It rather confirmed for me that ivory keys and gilded brass were meant for someone else. Ultimately, I quit playing the piano and actually threw my trombone in a trash dumpster when I moved away from home.

Conversely, I was not taught or encouraged to manage money while growing up. After leaving home, I became interested in successful financial principles and how to apply them in my life. Fortunately, I found a mentor who taught and encouraged me in this area. To this day I enjoy managing money and I am reaping the benefits of doing so.

Generalist or Specialist?

"Your calling is not just one thing; it's a few things. The trick is not to be a jack of all trades, but to become a master of some."

One of the stated objectives for employee development in the organization I work for is to make everyone a generalist, not a specialist. This, in my opinion, is a mistake. Experience has taught me that the more complex the process the more important it is to have specialists working it. Who would you choose to perform a delicate surgery on your brain – a general family physician or a specialized neurosurgeon? The reality is that most of us are hardwired for a handful of activities and are not really good at a broad spectrum of things.

When we look at our lives in general there are some key areas that we need to focus on specifically. These include our work, our relationships, and how we recreate. All of these involve our purpose or what we are meant to do. Don’t we want to know our time on earth has meant something? We are called to higher purposes than self-gratifying activities. We are called to invest in others; long-term, as we pour into the lives of our loved ones, or just for a season as we contribute to those who briefly cross our path.