Summary Written by Vanessa Chase
"In the same way that for the past seven years people have projected themselves into the looks I’ve sold through Nasty Gal, I want you to be able to use #GIRLBOSS to project yourself into an awesome life where you can do whatever you want."

- #GIRLBOSS, page 5

The Big Idea

Be In Charge of Your Own Life

"As a #GIRLBOSS, you take control and accept responsibility. You’re a fighter – you know when to throw the punches and when to roll with them. Sometimes you break the rules, sometimes you follow them, but always on your own terms. You know where you’re going, but can’t do it without having some fun along the way. You value honesty over perfection. You ask questions. You take your life seriously, but you don’t take yourself too seriously"- #GIRLBOSS, page 11

From Amoruso’s point of view, being a #GIRLBOSS is all about being in charge of your own life and accepting responsibility. In today’s prescribed society, whether or not you’re an entrepreneur, we often surrender both of those things without really recognizing it. Amoruso is calling women to come back to the helm and to not be afraid of running the show. She also continuously demonstrates one of her core values – don’t be afraid of hard work – and how that can make or break you. In this sense, it’s all about making things happen, not waiting for them to happen to you.

One of the things that is especially valuable about #GIRLBOSS is that Amoruso is not just writing to the entrepreneurial crowd. She’s gone out of her way to make her advice and story applicable to women of all walks of life. Throughout the book she discusses several areas of life including finance, creativity, responsibility and management. In each of these areas, Amoruso shows that owning a multi-million dollar company is not a requirement to be a #GIRLBOSS. In fact, being a #GIRLBOSS is just about being the best version of yourself and living your life for you.

Insight #1

Failure is Your Invention

"Your challenge #GIRLBOSS is to dive headfirst into things without being too attached to the results. When your goal is to gain experience, perspective and knowledge, failure is no longer a possibility"- #GIRLBOSS, page 138

It’s a well-known fact that a lot of start-ups fail. Additionally, throughout the course of our individual lives, there will undoubtedly be times when things don’t go as planned. While we can be deterred or find ourselves wallowing for days on end, Amoruso suggests that we can shift our mindset towards failure. She encourages us to let go of the traditional definitions of “success” and “failure,” to self-prescribe and self-subscribe from cultural norms.

Think about your last goal. Why did you set it? How did you define success? Why did you choose to mark the fulfillment of the goal as a “success?” Amoruso says that there’s more to life than just success and failure. We could choose to see it as gaining experience, new perspective and knowledge. This outlook provides a much needed balance to our pursuits.

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Insight #2

Your Community is Everything

"A lot of people run their businesses like their customers are dummies. This is a mistake. If you’re just out to take their money, they know it. But if you genuinely care about what you’re doing, they will respond."- #GIRLBOSS, page 182

This is the insight that’s woven throughout the book in Amoruso’s anecdotes. Customers are the building blocks of a business and all too often, they get the short end of the stick. She tells a lot of stories from the early days of Nasty Gal when she was using social media to connect with customers and build relationships with them. It seems like the obvious and natural thing to do because it builds community and loyalty, so why aren’t more businesses focusing on this?

Amoruso says that through building a community, she was also able to get a lot of free marketing, which contributed to Nasty Gal’s success. Specifically, she outlines these three rules:

  • Rule #1: Just do a good job. Customers always have a choice as to where they can shop, so it’s important to make them feel like their experience was worth it. This intangible value shines through in the little things like brand, photographs, copy, customer service, etc.
  • Rule #2: Keep your promises. Deliver exactly what you promised people in order to meet and exceed their expectations.
  • Rule #3: Give your customers something to share. Always have compelling content to share with your audience so that they can become your best marketers.

It’s clear that Nasty Gal’s success is rooted in Amoruso’s ability to be uncompromisingly and unapologetically herself. While their industries or other forces shape many people, Amoruso holds steadfast to basic principles and continues to grow.

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Sophia Amoruso

Sophia Amoruso turned her hobby selling vintage clothing on eBay into Nasty Gal, one of the fastest growing companies in America. Her rise has been covered by major media like The New York Times, Forbes, Fortune, Inc., and The Wall Street Journal, and she has a devoted following on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram.

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